For years, I was faithful to my gratitude journal. Every night, I would take a few moments to write down the little things that brought me joy throughout the day—my husband bringing me a cup of coffee, my dog letting me sleep in, or a stranger letting me out into traffic. But life got busy, and gradually, my journal entries became less frequent.
At the same time, my life was growing exponentially. I had started Pure Placid, gained more responsibilities, and found success in many ways. Yet, despite all this, I noticed something missing—my happiness. How could I be so successful yet feel so little joy?
Looking back, I realized I had lost the habit of looking for things to be grateful for. I had become so focused on the climb that I forgot to be thankful for simply having a mountain to climb.
When I rediscovered my gratitude journal, I saw the joy that filled those pages. It was a reminder of how much gratitude had once fueled my happiness, even when life was busy. I decided to make it a priority again, and now, even on my busiest days, I take a moment to jot down those moments of gratitude. The result? More joy, more peace, and a better life.
Tips for Starting (or Restarting) Your Gratitude Journal
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Start Small: You don’t have to write pages. Begin with three things you’re grateful for each day. They can be as small as enjoying a cup of tea or as big as landing a new client.
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Write Daily: Consistency is key. Try to journal every day, even if it’s just for a few minutes before bed. Over time, this habit will become a daily ritual that brings peace and clarity.
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Focus on Details: Go beyond writing “I’m grateful for my job.” Why are you grateful? What specifically brought you joy today? The more details you include, the more you’ll feel the emotion of gratitude.
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Feel the Gratitude: Don’t just write the words—take a moment to really feel the gratitude in your heart. Close your eyes and let the feeling wash over you. This helps deepen the impact of your journaling.
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Look for Gratitude in the Tough Times: It’s easy to be grateful when life is going well, but it’s during tough times that gratitude is most transformative. On hard days, challenge yourself to find something—anything—that went right.
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